My girlfriend is my boyfriend! Help!? I've been going out with this girl for 3 months and one day I said to her "you're the best girlfriend ever" and she was confused and thought I was joking and said she was a guy ad she thought I was a girl... so basically I thought she was a girl and she thought I was a girl, but we're both guys. what should I do?? I really like him?? am I gay?? Dafuq is this shit